Things To Consider When Choosing A Headstone

Follow 10 tips to choose a headstone 

A memorial headstone is a permanent marker that commemorates the life of a departed soul. So, you must take the time to choose the right headstone for your loved one. When choosing the headstone, you will have to make a lot of decisions and consider factors such as price, material, longevity, aesthetics, and maintenance. You must choose a headstone that can withstand the elements and last a long time and represent your loved one. Here are the important steps to help you choose the right headstone for your loved one:

Set a budget

A headstone could be expensive, so it is a good idea to set a budget before you visit the monument provider. The prices can vary greatly depending on the material, size, design, accessories, and level of customization. So, have a ballpark figure in mind so that the monument provider can make recommendations accordingly.

Check the cemetery rules and regulations

Many cemeteries have rules and regulations in place for the type and size of headstones they allow. These rules may vary across places. While some cemeteries may allow only flat markers, others may have restrictions only on the size of the marker. So, it is vital to check for these restrictions before you choose the market. If you are visiting the cemetery, use it as an opportunity to get some ideas on the styles and types of headstones that appeal to you. When you visit your monument provider, you will have a fair idea of what you want.

Learn about different types of headstones.

Headstones come in a wide variety of materials, styles, and sizes. To make the right choice, you should first learn about different styles. The most common ones include the following:

Upright headstones

A traditional and popular design with a tablet supported by a base.

Flat markers

Again, a popular design with a rectangular or square marker laid flat on the ground

Slant markers: These headstones stand upright but have a sloped face.

Bevel or pillow markers: It lies flat on the ground and has a gently sloping design. It is cut like a wedge on a gentle angle. The kind of design elements you can include will depend greatly on the style you choose, so take some time to make a choice.

Choose the materials

The most important factor to keep in mind when choosing a material is that it should be able to withstand the elements and last a long time without requiring much maintenance. The two popular materials that meet these two criteria are granite and bronze. Granite is the most popular option and is both affordable and durable. Bronze is an expensive material but is very durable and weathers beautifully. Marble and slate are also used for marking memorial headstones. Discuss the pros and cons of each material with your provider before choosing one.


You will also need to decide on the level of customization you want. Personalization will cost more, but you will have the freedom to include inscriptions, design elements, and anything you desire.


Choosing a headstone that requires minimal maintenance and lasts long is best. Granite and bronze are both great choices. They are easy to clean and maintain and preserve their beauty over the years. When you choose a headstone that has good quality, you will be saving yourself from maintenance and financial expenses later on.  

Headstone is a significant investment you make to immortalize the memories of your departed loved one. So, choose a headstone that perfectly reflects your loved one’s life, personality, and memories. If you want more information on headstone planning, speak to us right away.

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